I think ex-boyfriends/ girlfriends are the worst baggage you can carry. They're never quite out of your mind and you hate the fact that they even exist. I hear about people being good friends with their ex-es but its never happened for me. Sure, we are amicable and civil but theres something that just doesnt go away.
I debated about whether or not to write about this weird exchange of messages I recently had. So this guy and I used to go out around 4-5 years ago. Hes married to someone else now and we've hardly talked since. We were friends on Facebook but I noticed him adding and deleting me continuously. I would invite him/ receive an invite from him, just to get deleted the next day.
Finally I got sick of being jerked around and decided to tell him off. The conversation below gives the gist of our discussion, though I dont remember the exact words.
Me: Dude, am sick & tired of your adding and deleting my name from your friends list. I dont know why you keep doing it - lets just not remain friends on FB or anywhere else ok??? I wont invite u and u too dont - we've better things to do.
He: Mind your business.
Me: Yeah, you too. Duplitious Creep!
He: Excuse me? Duplitious, what are you then?
I didnt deign to reply.
He: Listen here, you invited me, so dont blame me for adding you. I deleted you. There ends the story!
Me: Congratulations! You managed to come up with a story that is even lamer than you are. Wasnt it you who invited me the last time with a dumb "Veeeeeeeeee"? Anyways, I am tired of your pathetic games, so stay out of my face. Goodbye!
He: Yeah, right...goodbye!
Well, the good thing is we wont talk again, ever!
Well, the good thing is we wont talk again, ever!
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4 comments:
Most boyfriends come with an EXpiry date....;)
and btw...the word is "duplicitous" not "Duplitious".
@ Anon1 - I guess you are right.
@ Anon2 - Oh yes, sorry for the typo, my bad!
But I really wish people would post comments under their names.
I do not see a problem of ex being your friend , reason say if they are your ex then you should have been at least good friends at that time. if the whole relationship was based on "Ex-pectations!" and someone got upset they are not met, then was it a relationship or a contract? may be u did right thing by ending it
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